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A Guardian's Guide to Addressing Inappropriate Touching with Children

Page updated on December 13, 2023 at 3:51 PM

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VIDEO: A Video Guide to help address Inappropriate Touching with Children

This is a brief video guide to help parents, guardians, and caretakers start the conversation about inappropriate touching. This media was a collaboration between the Alexandria Police Department and the Center for Alexandria's Children.

 

 

Summary discussion points for conversations with your children: 

  • Tell your children that you want to have a discussion about safety and their bodies and, ensure you frame the conversation around safety rather than abuse. 
  • Ask your child if anyone has been touching them in an unsafe way or in a way that makes them feel uncomfortable. 
  • Maintain an open dialogue with your child, and make it clear that they are never to blame for inappropriate touching. 
  • Tell your child that it is ok to divulge a secret, even if an adult has made them promise not to do so. 
  • If your child tells you that they have been abused, contact the authorities right away,
  • Do not contact the abuser or the institution where the abuse took place. 

External Resources:

Other Resources: 

 

Resources to prepare to talk to your kids

https://www.d2l.org/get-help/identifying-abuse/

https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Healthy-Sexual-Development-2020-1.pdf

https://www.d2l.org/child-grooming-signs-behavior-awareness/

 

Talking to kids age appropriately

https://www.sexualassaultvictimlawyers.com/talking-to-your-child-about-molestation/

https://www.d2l.org/get-help/being-the-safe-adult/

https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Talk-to-Kids-Body-Safety_-JTM.pdf

https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Conversation-Guide-3-to-5.pdf

https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Conversation-Guide-6-to-8.pdf

 

Talking about things they have seen or heard in the news

https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/01/Talking-to-KIds-About-Events-in-News-2020.pdf

 

Reporting

https://www.alexandriava.gov/ChildAbuse

https://www.d2l.org/get-help/reporting/

 

If they disclose

https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/what-should-i-do-after-a-child-tells

https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/how-can-i-better-understand-what-my-child-is-going-through

 

Prevention and Family Safety Toolkits for everyone

  • https://www.d2l.org/our-family-safety-toolkit/
  • https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/Family-Code-of-Conduct-Worksheet_fillable.pdf
  • https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/tip-sheet-create-a-family-safety-plan
  • https://www.d2l.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/11/D2L-2020-Worksheet-Internet-Safety-v2_fillable.pdf
  • https://www.kidsfirstinc.org/how-to-talk-to-youngchildren-about-body-safety/
  • https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/camp-safety
  • https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/parent-questions-about-school-policies
  • https://www.stopitnow.org/ohc-content/ten-things-to-remember-when-you-talk-to-kids-about-sexuality

 

 

*We will add additional resources in the future* 

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